Join us we welcome members of the Israel Defense Forces. There will be two speakers that will discuss the current situation in Israel for the soldiers. They will not be speaking about Israeli or American politics.
*What is FIDF?“Our purpose is to champion the soldiers of the IDF and care for their needs as they protect the State of Israel, democratic values, and Western Civilization.”
There are members of our Congregation who are very sensitive to scents and fragrances. MRT strives to provide a “Scent Free” environment in our building. The MRT community asks that you avoid wearing scents of any kind when coming to our synagogue and please inform your guests who visit with us.
TZEDAKAH BOX
Parker Family Health Center in Red Bank
The Parker Family Health Center, which is a free medical clinic in Red Bank, provides care to those people who might otherwise not be able to access medical care. Now celebrating its 25th year providing free medical care for the underserved and uninsured of Monmouth County, the Parker Family Health Center offers primary care as well as fourteen specialties. It serves as an initial health care access point and provides referrals for specialty care, one of the most significant hurdles for the uninsured, through a network of specialists who volunteer regularly at the clinic.
Margie and Rob Wold are matching donors.
Tzedakah donations (cash or check payable to MRT) can be placed into the lobby Tzedakah box, sent to the MRT office, or made through our website by clicking HERE.*
*If paying by check or online,please make sure to add a note to your payment specifying that the funds should be directed towardsParker Family Health Center.
High Holy Days 2025
Once again this year, our services will be held in person in our sanctuary, as well as on livestream.
SCHEDULE OF SERVICES
Rosh Hashanah
Erev Rosh Hashanah: September 22nd
Service: 7:45 pm
Rosh Hashanah: September 23rd
Morning Service: 10:00 am
Family (Children’s) Service: 2:00 pm
Tashlich: 3:00 pm
YOM KIPPUR
Kol Nidre: October 1st
Service: 7:45 pm
Yom Kippur: October 2nd
Morning Service: 10:00 am
Family Service: 2:00 pm
Afternoon Workshops: 3:00 pm
Yizkor Service: 4:45 pm
Closing Service/Neilah: 5:30 pm
HIGH HOLY DAY GREETERS AND USHERS NEEDED!
Outside greeters and ushers are needed to welcome congregants to our High Holy Day services.
If you would like to be a greeter, please contact Harry Hillson, harryh95@aol.com or 845-216-4863.
If you would like to be an usher, please contact Bob Hayet, marybethandbob@msn.com or 848-459-6558.
SHOFARS NEEDED
Do you have a shofar you’re no longer using?
The children at our synagogue are learning to blow the shofar, and we’re in need of a few more!
Would you consider donating yours to Monmouth Reform Temple?
You can drop it off at 332 Hance Avenue, Tinton Falls, or at my home in Manalapan—just let me know if you need the address.
All shapes and sizes are welcome, and your shofar will be cherished and used for many years to come.
It would be a truly meaningful gift!
Cantor Clissold
High Holy Day Food and Supply Drive
We’re glad YOU are here!
High Holy Day Appeal
Dear Fellow Congregants,
We want to reassure you that AI did not write this letter. While much in our modern world can feel fragmented and impersonal, at Monmouth Reform Temple we remain committed to forging meaningful connections with one another through tradition, life-long learning, and dedication to Tikkun Olam.
During the 5786 High Holy Day season, you’ll hear Rabbi Edelman speak about the importance of B’yachad (Being Together) and it’s the theme chosen by our new Director of Education, Michelle Krain, for the religious school this year. No matter the noise and division happening elsewhere, within these walls we strive for every individual to feel the embrace of belonging.
As our largest fundraiser of the year, the High Holy Day Appeal provides an essential piece of MRT’s Operating Budget. Reaching our goal of $45K this year would close a significant portion of our budget gap for the 2025-26 fiscal year. Our Board President, Margo Hassan, has kicked us off with a donation of $1000. Please know that a donation of ANY size helps us do more than just keep the lights on, it sustains MRT’s core missions and ensures that we will remain a vital voice for Reform Jewish values in the next generation. By supporting the High Holy Day Appeal, you tell us that you value the connections you make at MRT.
This year all donors contributing before October 13th (the end of Sukkot) will be recognized as members of MRT’s Circle of Chai with their names displayed on a sign in the Social Hall throughout the coming year as well as on our website. In addition, they will be entered for a chance to win a gift card to Uncle Guiseppe’s provided by Margo.
Donating is even easier this year with our new Venmo and Zelle accounts. Please see the flyer below for more details or visit our donation page. If you prefer to keep it simple, we always accept cash or check. No matter how you choose to contribute, please be sure to indicate that it is for the High Holy Day Appeal.
Thank you for your support of Monmouth Reform Temple.
RAC-NJ is hosting a Zoom “virtual lunch & learn” with New Jersey Attorney General Matt Platkin and Team. Details: On Friday, September 26 from 12:30 – 1:30 pm, RAC-NJ is sponsoring a virtual (webinar style, on Zoom) lunch & learn “Know Your Rights” program with New Jersey Attorney General Matt Platkin, who is also a member of Temple Ner Tamid in Bloomfield. Rabbi Marc Katz will introduce his congregant, and General Platkin will lead off speaking as a Reform Jew (and chief law enforcement officer of the State of New Jersey) to fellow Reform Jews about hope in the face of the fear that many of us find paralyzing at this moment in time, and then his team will take over to share what the NJ Attorney General’s office can offer when New Jersey residents face discrimination on the basis of national origin, LGBTQ+ status, religion, etc. You can find the registration linkhttps://urj.tfaforms.net/901?id=701UG00000S7CNh
MRT offers two opportunities to meditate together each week.
Boker Tov- Friday, September 19th at 8:00 am.This is MRT’s long-standing Friday morning meditation session consisting of a short reading, 18 minutes of silent meditation, a tiny bit of discussion, and then Kaddish.
Lilah Tov- Monday, September 22nd at 9:00 pm. Transition peacefully into sleep with this short and meaningful meditation session. We will start with a reading, 18 minutes of meditation, and then a quiet recitation of a portion of the bedtime Shema.
Each session is a way to inject a little bit of peace into your week and will help you feel calm and centered and connected with your community. If you are new to meditation, these sessions can be a gentle introduction to the practice with a Jewish twist. I hope you will join us.
Both sessions can be accessed via Zoom by following the link below:
Tuesday, September 23, 2025 NO MEETING DUE TO THE HIGH HOLY DAYS
Join Dean Ross and other board members at Coffee Corral in Red Bank.
MRT Committee News
Adult Education
The Adult Education Committee has just completed its annual MRT Adult Education Program Brochure for 2025-26. This provides information and a schedule of educational opportunities at Monmouth Reform Temple.
You may access the brochure HERE or by going to our temple website: monmouthreformtemple.org. At the top, click on “Adult Jewish Learning” and then “Programs and Schedules”. We hope you will take advantage of these wonderful educational offerings that our temple provides for you.
Thank you.
Maddy Kalb and Brenda Tuller
Co-Chairs Adult Education Committee
Men’s Club
Men’s Club Golf Outing
at Pine Brook Golf Course in Manalapan
Sunday, September 21, 2025 at 11:30 am
All are invited to join us. We will tee off around 11:30 in the morning and have lunch afterwards. For more information, call Zach Gilstein 908 216 8220 or email at zachmate2@gmail.com.
Sisterhood
Mahjong, Wednesdays, 1:00 pm-3:00 pm
We will be playing Mahjong in the MRT social hall every Wednesday from 1:00 pm-3:00 pm.
The MRT Sisterhood team will walk in Long Branch Sunday, Oct 19th
The MRT “Sisters and Friends” will once again be participating in the Making Strides against Breast Cancer walk.
Please note: We will be walking in Long Branch ( Not Point Pleasant ).
Start Time: 10:00 A.M.
Location: North Bath Beach, Long Branch
Brunch Afterwards on the Boardwalk.
Our DREAM TEAM is not limited to just Sisters or temple members. Men are invited to walk with us.
Weather Permitting
Please join us as together we help to create more birthdays. We would love to have you join us, but you can also lend your support by donating to our team fundraising efforts.
Instructions below. Many thanks!
Ways to join or support our team…
1. If you want to sign up or donate or walk with us, use this link. It will take your to MRT Sisterhood Team Page, Willa Siegel is the Team Captain.
From this point, you can make a contribution to the team, or join the team ( and join us on our walk October 19th in Long Branch).
There are no registration fees, no entry fees and no fundraising minimums to participate!
The event is Sunday, Oct 19, 2025 and we walk on the Long Branch Boardwalk about 3 miles (5k).
2. You can also donate to the Sisterhood Team in one of these ways: ( we will make the donation to ACS) :
– Send or bring a check to the temple office. Make the check out to “MRT Sisterhood” and add the memo “For the Breast Cancer Walk”.
OR
– Use Zelle to send money to the Sisterhood Account and add the memo “For the Breast Cancer Walk”.
Our engaging MRT Sisterhood offers many activities and programs throughout the year to its members. We are also a member of Women of Reform Judaism (WRJ), the umbrella organization of Sisterhoods nationwide. WRJ offers a multitude of educational and social programs to explore and participate in. Feel free to visit http://www.wrj.org to subscribe for updates from WRJ via weekly e-mail.
Sisterhood Judaica Shop
Your MRT Sisterhood Judaica Shop has a selection of beautiful and meaningful gifts for the home, the holidays, special occasions and for the young people in your life.
Below is a catalog showing many of the items we have available. To order any items or visit the shop, contact Racielle Lande hilande0110@gmail.com
Please help us keep our mi shebeirach list current.
If you or a loved one have been included on the Mi shebeirach list and you would like for yours or their name to continue to be read, please let us know as soon as possible so we know to keep the name on the list.
We appreciate your help in keeping the list up to date.
Mi Shebeirach
If you are in need of pastoral care or would like to add a name to our Mi Shebeirach list to be read at Shabbat services, please contact Rabbi Edelman, Cantor Clissold or the temple office.
Please note: Names added to the Mi Shebeirach list will be read aloud during Shabbat Services for two weeks. If you would like to continue to have the name read, you must recontact the temple at the end of the two week period. As always, when you attend Shabbat services, you are welcome to announce the name of a loved one in need of healing.
Yahrzeits
May our loved ones’ memories forever be a blessing
The names of your loved ones will be read during Shabbat services for Yahrzeit, Shiva & Shloshim.
Names to be read on Friday, September 19, 2025
Shabbat Service at 7:00 PM
*Stella Bernstein, *Sonya Brecker, Jodi Cohen, Leah Epstein, *Donald L. Fink, Arnold Goldfarb, Michael Graver, Anna Jarvis, *Roberta Kirsch, *Oscar Kurry, *Lillian Lane, Charlotte Levine, Celia Maybaum, Jessie Miller, Gilda Moss, Priscilla Perlman, Robert Rekedal, Lorraine Roffman, *Anne Rogovin, Florence Chatin Schlenoff, Gloria St. Lifer, Alice Walker, *Kurt Wallenfels
Names to be read on Friday, September 26, 2025
Shabbat Service at 7:00 PM
Joseph Baer, Lynn DiMatteo, *Morris Dworkin, *Philip Falk, *Warren Feigus, *Roslyn Falk Garin, Nathan Jacobs, Solomon Kahn, Linh Katz, Ed W. Keil, *Esther Kornitzky, *Abram Kridel, Linda Lerner, *Gertrude L. Marx, Dorothy Merchasin, *Blume R. Miller, Tom Patten, Walter Peskoe, *Ruth Rothman, Susan Sachs, *Daniel B. Salomon, *Gilbert H. Salomon, Joyce Schultz, Reva Sklarin, *Herman Solomon, *George Welner, Susan Roxanne Wolf
*Names with an asterisk have memorial plaques. To order a memorial plaque, please email or call Jordana in the MRT office. Purchasing a plaque ensures that Kaddish will be said, in perpetuity, at temple services during the week of the anniversary of that person’s death.
ADMINISTRATIVE OFFICE HOURS :
Monday-Wednesday: 10 am – 4 pm
Thursday: Closed
Friday: 10 am – 2 pm
HOWEVER, if the need arises, our clergy and staff are always available to you. Please contact anyone with their information below.
We strive for a “No Conflict” schedule here at MRT. Please contact the office before scheduling any temple events. This way, each event will be on the calendar, and we can all participate in them.
When making payments or donations to MRT, please consider using PayPal in lieu of checks. It’s a safe, easy way to send money.
Simply go to the donation page of our website (https://monmouthreformtemple.org/donate/) and follow the instructions. Don’t forget to include the reason for your payment by clicking “Add a Note” once you are logged onto PayPal. Thank you!
New! Easy Payment Options
In addition to check, credit card, and PayPal, MRT is now accepting donations/payments via Venmo and Zelle.
You can either scan the QR codes or click the links below.
Very Important: When making your payment, please be sure to include a note indicating what the payment is for. Thank you for your support!
Monmouth Reform Temple 332 Hance Ave. Tinton Falls, NJ 07724
We even have a working fax machine!
(732) 747-9770
MRT Welcomes Children of All Ages!
At Monmouth Reform Temple we recognize how important it is to find other Jewish and Interfaith families with very young children, which is why we host Bagels & Blocks often on the third Sunday of every month. Our program focuses on toddler and preschool aged children and their parents or grandparents.
We are delighted to partner with PJ Library to introduce the excitement and joy of Jewish values and holidays to your little ones. With plenty of free play interspersed, our morning includes time with the Rabbi reading of a PJ Library book, singing songs with our Cantor and song leaders, and the making of a craft. We also perform a quick kiddish before snacking on bagels and grape juice (and coffee for the grown-ups). Because our primary goal is to foster relationships and help young families connect to one another, our program is free and open to the public. NO RSVP REQUIRED – JUST JOIN US AND HAVE FUN!
For Pre-K (4 year old) children and their parents we offer a transitional program named Kesher Kids. The first half hour of each session is combined with Bagels & Blocks. Then the children will head to their own classroom to spend an hour with a teacher following our play-based Jewish curriculum. This program is $100 for the year and open to anyone raising a Jewish child. Registration is required.
All sessions start at 9:30am and run to approximately 11am. We hope you and your little ones will join us to connect and celebrate at these excellent programs!
I came to MonmouthReformTemple in August of 1981 and much to everyone’s surprise I am still here! As the first woman ever to be ordained rabbi by a theological seminary, I always assumed it was my obligation to become the rabbi of a large congregation in a major American city, but the members of MonmouthReformTemple taught me that success does not mean bigger. It simply means are we doing better today than we did yesterday?
I was attracted to MonmouthReformTemple and remained its rabbi for twenty-five years because its members were warm and welcoming, open to new ideas and unafraid of new challenges. They allowed me to be myself, to experiment and be creative, and they were willing to take responsibility for their own Jewishness, one mitzvah at a time. Together we created a temple family based on caring and concern for each other.. From week to week we looked forward to Shabbat and the opportunity to re-connect with God, our people and each other. We embraced the command to study Torah, and most importantly, provided a Jewish presence in our community, joining with others in the task of tikkun olam (repairing the world).
All these characteristics remain at the core of MonmouthReformTemple today. In 2006, I retired and was honored to be given by the temple the title Rabbi Emerita. I continue to be involved, and on Shabbat I enjoy the view from the pew. I look forward to welcoming you at services, and when you enter the sanctuary, I hope you will note the doors that were dedicated in my honor on the occasion of my retirement. They bear the inscription
פִּתְחוּ לִי שַׁעֲרֵי צֶדֶק אָבֹא בָם אוֹדֶה יָהּ
Open the gates of righteousness for me that I may enter and praise God.
Whenever I go through these doors, I remember that we are partners with God in completing the work of creation. I am grateful for the sense of belonging I feel within these walls, for friendships made here and those yet to be, and for my temple family without whom my life would never be the same.
Cantor Clissold Welcomes YOU!
I grew up in South Orange, the child of artists Jo and Carol Jochnowitz. My journey into music began at age twelve when I started studying classical voice. I was also an active member of Congregation Beth El, where I thrived in religious school and embarked on a six-week trip to Israel at sixteen—an experience that profoundly shaped me.
I attended Columbia High School and UNC-Greensboro while serving as a cantorial soloist at Temple Emanuel, a Reform congregation. It was through this work that I realized my true calling: to become a cantor. In 1994, before beginning my formal studies at Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion, I had the opportunity to serve as a substitute cantor at Monmouth Reform Temple. I still vividly remember standing on the bima, feeling the power of the congregation’s active participation—it was as if my hair was being blown back by their energy! That Shabbat, I met Rabbi Priesand (now Rabbi Emerita) and lay leaders who remain an integral part of our temple today. The warmth and dynamic worship style of MRT left a lasting impression on me.
When I officially joined the clergy team in 2002, I was thrilled to find that the same warmth and enthusiasm for Jewish music were still alive. The congregation’s openness to learning, experimenting with music, and embracing both traditional and contemporary Jewish compositions has allowed me to create unique and joyful Shabbat experiences. I deeply appreciate their enthusiasm—whether through participation or simply being present to absorb the beauty of our music.
Yet, my role extends far beyond music. I am incredibly proud to have developed and nurtured many programs, including:
Strong participation at URJ Camps
Visual worship
Live Streaming and technology integration
Torah and Haftarah readers and service leaders
Junior and senior Youth Groups
B’nai Mitzvah preparation
Shir Chadash Band
Adult Purim Shpiel
Volunteer choir
Music and Hebrew education
Adult education
Pastoral care
Life-cycle officiation
If you love to sing, we would love to have you in our choir or band! Our volunteer choir is made up of temple members who enjoy singing, and it is always a joy to make music together. They join me on the bima for MLK Shabbat, the High Holy Days, and Thanksgiving services, bringing an added depth to our worship.
Children at MRT get to know me through religious school and services. I teach all ages and play an active role in religious school, especially working one-on-one with sixth and seventh graders as they prepare to become B’nai Mitzvah. Teaching is one of the most rewarding aspects of my work, allowing me to build meaningful relationships with students and their families. Many of our students continue beyond their B’nai Mitzvah, staying involved through confirmation, Torah chanting, choir, band, and youth group. Their achievements fill me with pride, and I cherish watching them grow as members of our community.
As one of the clergy members at MRT, I also share in the pastoral care of our temple family. Walking through life’s journey together—through both joys and challenges—is a sacred privilege, and I want you to know how much I care.
When you join MRT, you become part of something truly special. As your Cantor, I feel deeply fortunate to be part of this incredible community. My own family considers MRT our extended family, and I have no doubt that you will too. Please stop by, send me a message, or email me—I would love to meet you and hear your story.
For nearly 25 years, I have been dedicated to Monmouth Reform Temple, striving to create continuity of progressive Judaism. Throughout my career, I’ve had the privilege of growing professionally with our synagogue, a community that values our traditions and deletes my experiments.
As I approach my retirement in June 2026, I reflect with gratitude on the incredible journey I’ve had—collaborating with talented lay people, colleagues and clergy, serving MRT and witnessing the growth and evolution of our community. While this chapter is coming to a close, my commitment to excellence and passion for our future remains unwavering.
Thank you for being a part of this journey with me!
The MRT Bulletin
The MRT Bulletin is an exciting colorful array of articles, photographs, and information about your temple written by MRT clergy, professionals and volunteers. Read it and you will feel inspired to be connected to MRT!
If you would like to contribute an article or a photograph to The MRT Bulletin, please contact our Office Administrator Jordana Steinberg (jordana@monmouthreformtemple.org).
The MRT Bulletin is also a great advertising opportunity where every one of our congregants and their friends are prospective customers! Advertising rates are inexpensive AND help support the temple. Please contact Jordana for more information at the above email address.
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